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NuHiepDeThuong 14.11.2004 03:07:27 (permalink)
29. Puppies For Sale

Dan Clark


A store owner was tacking a sign above his door that read “Puppies For Sale.” Signs like that have a way of attracting small children, and sure enough, a little boy appeared under the store owner’s sign. “How much are you going to sell the puppies for?” he asked.

The store owner replied, “Anywhere from $30 to $50.”

The little boy reached in his pocket and pulled out some change. “I have $2.37,” he said. “Can I please look at them?”

The store owner smiled and whistled and out of the kennel came Lady, who ran down the aisle of his store followed by five teeny tiny balls of fur. One puppy was lagging considerable behind. Immediately the little boy singled out the lagging limping puppy and said, “What’s wrong with that little dog?”

The store owner explained that the veterinarian had examined the little puppy and had discovered it didn’t have a hip socket. It would always limp. It would always be lame. The little boy became excited. “That’s the little puppy that I want to buy.”

The store owner said, “No, you don’t want to buy that little dog. If you really want him, I’ll just give him to you.”

The little boy got quite upset. He looked straight into the store owner’s eyes, pointing his finger and said, “I don’t want you to give him to me. That little dog is worth every bit as much as all the other dogs and I’ll pay full price. In fact I’ll give you $2.37 now, and 50 cents a month until I have him paid for.

The store owner countered, “You really don’t want to buy this little dog. He is never going to be able to jump and play with you like the other puppies.”

To this, the little boy reached down and rolled up his pant leg to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. He looked up at the store owner and softly replied, “Well, I don’t run so well myself, and the little puppy will need someone who understands!”



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    NuHiepDeThuong 14.11.2004 03:11:05 (permalink)
    30. Coffee Shop Kindness


    Christine Walsh


    My senior year of high school was an extremely hectic one, to say the least. If I wasn’t studying and worrying about my grades, I was juggling multiple extracurricular activities or attempting to make sense of my plans for college. It seemed as if my life had turned into one crazy cloud of confusion and I was stumbling around blindly, hoping to find some sort of direction.

    Finally, as senior year began to wind down, I got a part-time job working at the local coffee shop. I had figured that the job would be easy and, for the most part, stress-free. I pictured myself pouring the best gourmet coffees, making delicious doughnuts, and becoming close friends with the regular customers.

    What I hadn’t counted on were the people with enormous orders who chose to use the drive-thru window, or the women who felt that the coffee was much too creamy, or the men who wanted their iced coffees remade again and again until they reached a certain level of perfection. There were moments when I was exasperated with the human race as a whole, simply because I couldn’t seem to please anyone. There was always too much sugar, too little ice, and not enough skim milk. Nevertheless, I kept at it.

    One miserable rainy day, one of my regular customers came in looking depressed and defeated. My co-worker and I asked what the problem was and if we could help, but the customer wouldn’t reveal any details. He just said he felt like crawling into bed, pulling the sheets up over his head, and staying there for a few years. I knew exactly how he felt.

    Before he left, I handed him a bag along with his iced coffee. He looked at me questioningly because he hadn’t ordered anything but the coffee. He opened the bag and saw that I had given him his favorite type of doughnut.

    “It’s on me,” I told him. “Have a nice day.”

    He smiled and thanked me before turning around and heading back out into the rain.

    The next day was a horrible one. The rain was still spilling down from the sky in huge buckets and everyone in my town seemed to be using the drive-thru window because no one wanted to brave the black skies or the thunder and lightning.

    I spent my afternoon hanging out the window, handing people their orders and waiting as they slowly counted their pennies. I tried to smile as the customers complained about the weather, but it was difficult to smile as they sat in their temperature-controlled cars with the windows rolled up, while I dealt with huge droplets of water hanging from my visor, a shirt that was thoroughly soaked around the collar, and an air conditioner that blasted out cold air despite the fact that it was only sixty-seven degrees outside. On top of that, no one felt like tipping that day. Every time I looked into our tip jar, with its small amount of pennies, I grew more depressed.

    Around seven o’clock that evening, however, my day took a turn for the better. I was in the middle of making another pot of vanilla hazelnut decaf when the customer from the day before drove up to the window. But instead of ordering anything, he handed me a single pink rose and a little note. He said that not too many people take the time to care about others and he was glad there were still people like me in the world. I was speechless and very touched; I hadn't thought that I had done anything incredible. After a moment, I came to my senses and thanked him. He told me I was welcome and with a friendly wave he drove away.

    I waited until I saw his Jeep exit the parking lot, then I ran to the back of the shop and read the note. It read:

    Christine,

    Thanks for being so sweet, kind and thoughtful yesterday. I was sincerely touched by you. It is so nice to meet someone that’s genuinely nice, warm and sensitive and unselfish. Please don’t change your ways because I truly believe that you will excel. Have a great day! Hank


    As time went on, I did come across more complaining customers. But anytime I felt depressed or just plain sick of coffee, I thought of Hank and his kindness.
    Then I would smile, hold my head up high, clear my throat and ask politely, “How can I help you?”



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      NuHiepDeThuong 18.11.2004 09:16:18 (permalink)
      31. A Thanksgiving Story

      Andréa Nannette

      Help carry one another’s burdens and in this way you will obey the law of Christ.
      Gal. 6:2


      It was the day before Thanksgiving -- the first one my three children and I would be spending without their father, who had left several months before. Now the two older children were very sick with the flu, and the eldest had just been prescribed bed rest for a week.

      It was a cool, gray day outside, and a light rain was falling. I grew wearier as I scurried around, trying to care for each child: thermometers, juice, diapers. And I was fast running out of liquids for the children. But when I checked my purse, all I found was about $2.50 -- and this was supposed to last me until the end of the month. That’s when I heard the phone ring.

      It was the secretary from our former church, and she told me that they had been thinking about us and had something to give us from the congregation. I told her that I was going out to pick up some more juice and soup for the children, and I would drop by the church on my way to the market.

      I arrived at the church just before lunch. The church secretary met me at the door and handed me a special gift envelope. “We think of you and the kids often,” she said, “and you are in our hearts and prayers. We love you.” When I opened the envelope, I found two grocery certificates inside. Each was worth $20. I was so touched and moved, I broke down and cried.

      “Thank you very much,” I said, as we hugged each other. “Please give our love and thanks to the church.” Then I drove to a store near our home and purchased some much-needed items for the children.

      At the check-out counter I had a little over $14.00 worth of groceries, and I handed the cashier one of the gift certificates. She took it, then turned her back for what seemed like a very long time. I thought something might be wrong. Finally I said, “This gift certificate is a real blessing. Our former church gave it to my family, knowing I’m a single parent trying to make ends meet.“

      The cashier then turned around, with tears in her loving eyes, and replied, “Honey, that’s wonderful! Do you have a turkey?”

      “No. It’s okay because my children are sick anyway.”

      She then asked, “Do you have anything else for Thanksgiving dinner?”

      Again I replied, “No.”

      After handing me the change from the certificate, she looked at my face and said, “Honey, I can’t tell you exactly why right now, but I want you to go back into the store and buy a turkey, cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie or anything else you need for a Thanksgiving dinner.”

      I was shocked, and humbled to tears. “Are you sure?” I asked.

      “Yes! Get whatever you want. And get some Gatorade for the kids.”

      I felt awkward as I went back to do some more shopping, but I selected a fresh turkey, a few yams and potatoes, and some juices for the children. Then I wheeled the shopping cart up to the same cashier as before. As I placed my groceries on the counter, she looked at me once more with giant tears in her kind eyes and began to speak.

      “Now I can tell you. This morning I prayed that I could help someone today, and you walked through my line.” She reached under the counter for her purse and took out a $20 bill. She paid for my groceries and then handed me the change. Once more I was moved to tears.

      The sweet cashier then said, “I am a Christian. Here is my phone number if you ever need anything.” She then took my head in her hands, kissed my cheek and said, “God bless you, honey.”

      As I walked to my car, I was overwhelmed by this stranger’s love and by the realization that God loves my family too, and shows us his love through this stranger’s and my church’s kind deeds.

      The children were supposed to have spent Thanksgiving with their father that year, but because of the flu they were home with me, for a very special Thanksgiving Day. They were feeling better, and we all ate the goodness of the Lord’s bounty -- and our community’s love. Our hearts were truly filled with thanks.



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        NuHiepDeThuong 02.12.2004 07:56:30 (permalink)
        32. Life Still Has A Meaning


        Author unknown


        If there is a future there is time for mending-
        Time to see your troubles coming to an ending.


        Life is never hopeless however great your sorrow-
        If you're looking forward to a new tomorrow.


        If there is time for wishing then there is time for hoping-
        When through doubt and darkness you are blindly groping.


        Though the heart be heavy and hurt you may be feeling-
        If there is time for praying there is time for healing.

        So if through your window there is a new day breaking-
        Thank God for the promise, though mind and soul be aching,


        If with harvest over there is grain enough for gleaning-
        There is a new tomorrow and life still has meaning.

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          NuHiepDeThuong 20.12.2004 09:05:05 (permalink)
          33. A Perfect Mistake

          Cheryl Walterman Stewart


          Grandpa Nybakken loved life -- especially when he could play a trick on somebody. At those times, his large Norwegian frame shook with laughter while he feigned innocent surprise, exclaiming, “Oh, forevermore!” But on a cold Saturday in downtown Chicago, Grandpa felt that God played a trick on him, and Grandpa wasn’t laughing.

          Mother’s father worked as a carpenter. On this particular day, he was building some crates for the clothes his church was sending to an orphanage in China. On his way home, he reached into his shirt pocket to find his glasses, but they were gone. He remembered putting them there that morning, so he drove back to the church. His search proved fruitless.

          When he mentally replayed his earlier actions, he realized what happened. The glasses had slipped out of his pocket unnoticed and fallen into one of the crates, which he had nailed shut. His brand new glasses were heading for China!

          The Great Depression was at its height, and Grandpa had six children. He had spent twenty dollars for those glasses that very morning.

          “It’s not fair,” he told God as he drove home in frustration. “I’ve been very faithful in giving of my time and money to your work, and now this.”

          Several months later, the director of the orphanage was on furlough in the United States. He wanted to visit all the churches that supported him in China, so he came to speak on Sunday night at my grandfather’s small church in Chicago. Grandpa and his family sat in their customary seats among the sparse congregation.

          “But most of all,” he said, “I must thank you for the glasses you sent last year. You see, the Communists had just swept through the orphanage, destroying everything, including my glasses. I was desperate.”

          “Even if I had the money, there was simply no way of replacing those glasses. Along with not being able to see well, I experienced headaches every day, so my coworkers and I were much in prayer about this. Then your crates arrived. When my staffed removed the covers, they found a pair of glasses lying on top.”

          The missionary paused long enough to let his words sink in. Then, still gripped with the wonder of it all, he continued: “Folks, when I tried on the glasses, it was as thought they had been custom-made just for me! I want to thank you for being a part of that!”

          The people listened, happy for the miraculous glasses. But the missionary surely must have confused their church with another, they thought. There were no glasses on their list of items to be sent overseas.

          But sitting quietly in the back, with tears streaming down his face, an ordinary carpenter realized the Master Carpenter had used him in an extraordinary way.

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            NuHiepDeThuong 20.12.2004 09:19:15 (permalink)
            34. Gifts of the Heart


            Sheryl Nicholson


            In this hustle-bustle world we live in, it's so much easier to charge something on a credit card rather than give a gift of the heart.

            And gifts of the heart are especially needed during the holidays.

            A few years ago, I began to prepare my children for the fact that Christmas that year was going to be a small one. Their response was, "Yeah sure, Mom, we've heard that before!" I had lost my credibility because I had told them the same thing the previous year, while going through a divorce. But then I had gone out and charged every credit card to the max. I even found some creative financing techniques to pay for their stocking stuffers. This year was definitely going to be different, but they weren't buying it.

            A week before Christmas, I asked myself, What do I have that will make this Christmas special? In all the houses we had lived in before the divorce, I had always made time to be the interior decorator. I had learned how to wallpaper, to lay wooden and ceramic tiles, to sew curtains out of sheets and even more. But in this rental house there was little time for decorating and a lot less money. Plus, I was angry about this ugly place, with its red and orange carpets and turquoise and green walls. I refused to put money into it. Inside me, and inner voice of hurt pride shouted, "We're not going to be here that long!"

            Nobody else seemed to mind about the house, except my daughter Lisa, who always tried to make her room her special place. It was time to express my talents. I called my ex-husband and asked that he buy a specific bedspread for Lisa. Then I bought the sheets to match.

            On Christmas Eve, I spent $15 on a gallon of paint. I also bought the prettiest stationery I'd ever seen. My goal was simple: I'd paint and we and stay busy until Christmas morning, so I wouldn't have time to feel sorry for myself on such a special family holiday.

            That night, I gave each of the children three pieces of stationery with envelopes. At the top of each page were the words, "What I love about my sister Mia," "What I love about my brother Kris," What I love about my sister Lisa" and "What I love about my brother Erik." The kids were 16, 14, 10 and 8, and it took some convincing on my part to assure them that they could find just one thing they liked about each other. As they wrote in privacy, I went to my bedroom and wrapped their few store-bought gifts.

            When I returned to the kitchen, the children had finished their letters to one another. Each name was written on the outside of the envelope. We exchanged hugs and goodnight kisses and they hurried off to bed. Lisa was given special permission to sleep in my bed, with the promise not to peek until Christmas morning.

            I got started in the wee hours of Christmas morn, I finished the curtains, painted the walls and stepped back to admire my masterpiece. Wait-why not put rainbows and clouds on the walls to match the sheets? So out came my makeup brushes and sponges, and at 5 A.M. I was finished. Too exhausted to think about being a poor "broken home," as statistics said, I went to my room and found Lisa spread-eagled in my bed. I decided I couldn't sleep with arms and legs all over me, so I gently lifted her up and tiptoed her into her room. As I laid her head on the pillow, she said, "Mommy, is it morning yet?"

            "No sweetie, keep your eyes closed until Santa comes."

            I awoke that morning with a bright whisper in my ear. "Wow, Mommy, it's beautiful!"

            Later, we all got up and sat around the tree and opened the few wrapped presents. Afterward the children were given their three envelopes. We read the words with teary eyes and red noses. Then we got to "the baby of the family's" notes. Erik, at 8, wasn't expecting to hear anything nice. His brother had written: "What I love about my brother Erik is that he's not afraid of anything." Mia had written, "What I love about my brother Erik is he can talk to anybody!" Lisa had written, "What I love about my brother Erik he can climb trees higher than anyone!"

            I felt a gentle tug at my sleeve, then a small hand cupped around my ear and Erik whispered, "Gee, Mom, I didn't even know they like me!"

            In the worst of times, creativity and resourcefulness had given us the best of times. I'm now back on my feet financially, and we've had many "big" Christmases with lots of presents under the tree… but when asked which Christmas is our favorite, we all remember that one.

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              VG 20.12.2004 17:04:34 (permalink)
              Very nice stories sis HNDT!
              Thanks for great work!
              #37
                NuHiepDeThuong 21.12.2004 08:25:19 (permalink)
                You're very welcome.

                Will try to find some more good ones.

                Thank you VG for dropping by.
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                  NuHiepDeThuong 04.01.2005 23:30:36 (permalink)
                  35. One Day

                  Unknown


                  One day, when I was a freshman in high school,

                  I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

                  His name was Kyle.

                  It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

                  I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd."

                  I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

                  As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
                  They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.

                  My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives."

                  He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

                  There was a big smile on his face.

                  It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

                  I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.

                  As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.
                  He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
                  We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

                  He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.
                  He said yes. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

                  Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.

                  I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!"
                  He just laughed and handed me half the books.

                  Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.

                  When we were seniors, we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke.

                  I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

                  He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship. Kyle was valedictorian of our class.
                  I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

                  I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak.

                  Graduation day, I saw Kyle.

                  He looked great.

                  He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.

                  He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

                  He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

                  Boy, sometimes I was jealous.

                  Today was one of those days.

                  I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

                  So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"

                  He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.

                  "Thanks," he said.

                  As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began:

                  "Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends... I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story."

                  I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.

                  He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

                  He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

                  He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

                  "Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

                  I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.

                  I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

                  Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

                  Never underestimate the power of your actions.

                  With one small gesture you can change a person's life.


                  Got this wonderful story from a friend.
                  #39
                    NuHiepDeThuong 05.01.2005 05:31:00 (permalink)
                    36. The Rich Family

                    Eddie Ogan


                    I’ll never forget Easter 1946. I was fourteen, my little sister, Ocy, was twelve and my older sister, Darlene, was sixteen. We lived at home with our mother, and the four of us knew what it was to do without. My dad had died five years before, leaving Mom with no money and seven school-aged kids to raise.

                    By 1946, my older sisters were married and my brothers had left home. A month before Easter, the pastor of our church announced that a special holiday offering would be taken to help a poor family. He asked everyone to save and give sacrificially.

                    When we got home, we talked about what we could do. We decided to buy fifty pounds of potatoes and live on them for a month. This would allow us to save twenty dollars of our grocery money for the offering. Then we thought that if we kept our electric lights turned out as much as possible and didn’t listen to the radio, we’d save money on that month’s electric bill. Darlene got as many house- and yard-cleaning jobs as possible, and both of us baby-sat for everyone we could. For fifteen cents we could buy enough cotton loops to make three potholders to sell for a dollar. We made twenty dollars on potholders. That month was one of the best of our lives.

                    Every day we counted the money to see how much we had saved. At night we’d sit in the dark and talk about how the poor family was going to enjoy having the money the church would give them. We had about eighty people in church, so we figured that whatever amount of money we had to give, the offering would surely be twenty times that much. After all, every Sunday the pastor had reminded everyone to save for the sacrificial offering.

                    The night before Easter, we were so excited we could hardly sleep. We didn’t care that we wouldn’t have new clothes for Easter; we had seventy dollars for the sacrificial offering. We could hardly wait to get to church! On Sunday morning, rain was pouring. We didn’t own an umbrella, and the church was over a mile from our home, but it didn’t seem to matter how wet we got. Darlene had cardboard in her shoes to fill the holes. The cardboard came apart, and her feet got wet.

                    But we sat in church proudly. I heard some teenagers talking about our old dresses. I looked at them in their new clothes, and I felt rich.

                    When the sacrificial offering was taken, we were sitting in the second row form the front. Mom put in the ten-dollar bill, and each of us kids put in a twenty-dollar bill.

                    We sang all the way home from church. At lunch, Mom had a surprise for us. She had bought a dozen eggs, and we had boiled Easter eggs with our fried potatoes! Late that afternoon, the minister drove up in his car. Mom went to the door, talked with him for a moment, and then came back with an envelope in her hand. We asked what it was, but she didn’t say a word. She opened the envelope and out fell a bunch of money. There were three crisp twenty-dollar bills, one ten-dollar bill and seventeen one-dollar bills.

                    Mom put the money back in the envelope. We didn’t talk, just sat and stared at the floor. We had gone from feeling like millionaires to feeling poor. We kids had such a happy life that we felt sorry for anyone who didn’t have our Mom and our late Dad for parents and a house full of brothers and sisters and other kids visiting constantly. We thought it was fun to share silverware and see whether we got the spoon or the fork that night. We had two knives that we passed around to whoever needed them. I knew we didn’t have a lot of things that other people had, but I’d never thought we were poor.

                    That Easter day I found out we were. The minister had brought us the money for the poor family, so we must be poor, I thought. I didn’t like being poor. I looked at my dress and worn-out shoes and felt so ashamed -- I didn’t even want to go back to church. Everyone there probably already knew we were poor!

                    I thought about school. I was in the ninth grade and at the top of my class of over one hundred students. I wondered if the kids at school knew that we were poor. I decided that I could quit school since I had finished the eighth grade. That was all the law required at that time.

                    We sat in silence for along time. Then it got dark, and we went to bed. All that week, we girls went to school and came home, and no one talked much. Finally, on Saturday, Mom asked us what we wanted to do with the money. What did poor people do with money? We didn’t know. We’d never know we were poor. We didn’t want to go to church on Sunday, but Mom said we had to. Although it was a sunny day, we didn’t talk on the way. Mom started to sing, but no one joined in, and she sang only one verse.

                    At church we had a missionary speaker. He talked about how churches in Africa made buildings out of sun-dried bricks, but they needed money to buy roofs. He said one hundred dollars would put a roof on a church. The minister added, “Can’t we all sacrifice to help these poor people?” We looked at each other and smiled for the first time in a week.

                    Mom reached into her purse and pulled out the envelope. She passed it to Darlene, Darlene gave it to me, and I handed it to Ocy. Ocy put it in the offering.

                    When the offering was counted, the minister announced that it was a little over one hundred dollars. The missionary was excited. He hadn’t expected such a large offering form our small church. He said, “You must have some rich people in this church.” Suddenly it struck us! We had given eighty-seven dollars of that “little over one hundred dollars.”

                    We were the rich family in the church! Hadn’t the missionary said so? From that day on, I’ve never been poor again.

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                      NuHiepDeThuong 05.01.2005 05:33:48 (permalink)
                      37. Dance With Me


                      Jean Harper


                      When we’re young and we dream of love and fulfillment, we think perhaps of moon-drenched Parisian nights or walks along the beach at sunset.

                      No one tells us that the greatest moments of a lifetime are fleeting, unplanned and nearly always catch us off guard.

                      Not long ago, as I was reading a bedtime story to my seven-year-old daughter, Annie, I became aware of her focused gaze. She was starring at me with a faraway, trancelike expression. Apparently, completing The Tale of Samuel Whiskers was not as important as we first thought.

                      I asked what she was thinking about.

                      “Mommy,” she whispered, “I just can’t stop looking at your pretty face.”

                      I almost dissolved on the spot.

                      Little did she know how many trying moments the glow of her sincerely loving statement would carry me through over the following years.

                      Not long after, I took my four-year-old son to an elegant department store, where the melodic notes of a classic love song drew us toward a tuxedoed musician playing a grand piano. Sam and I sat down on a marble bench nearby, and he seemed as transfixed by the lilting theme as I was.

                      I didn’t realize that Sam had stood up next to me until he turned, took my face in his little hands and said, “Dance with me.”

                      If only those women strolling under the Paris moon knew the joy of such an invitation made by a round-cheeked boy with baby teeth. Although shoppers openly chuckled, grinned and pointed at us as we glided and whirled around the open atrium, I would not have traded a dance with such a charming young gentleman if I’d been offered the universe.



                      #41
                        NuHiepDeThuong 21.01.2005 21:02:02 (permalink)
                        38. Weakness Or Strength

                        Unknown Author


                        Sometimes your biggest weakness can become your biggest strength. Take, for example, the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.

                        The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training, the master had taught him only one move.

                        "Sensei," the boy finally said, "shouldn't I be learning more moves?"

                        "This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you'll ever need to know," the sensei replied.

                        Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training.

                        Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament.

                        Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.

                        This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened.

                        "No," the sensei insisted, "Let him continue."

                        Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.

                        On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind.

                        "Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?"

                        "You won for two reasons," the sensei answered. "First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. Second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm."

                        The boy's biggest weakness had become his biggest strength.

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                          NuHiepDeThuong 24.01.2005 01:49:32 (permalink)
                          39. Everything I Need To Know About Life I Learned From a Jigsaw Puzzle


                          Unknown Author


                          Don't force a fit. If something is meant to be, it will come together naturally.

                          When things aren't going so well, take a break. Everything will look different when you return.

                          Be sure to look at the big picture. Getting hung up on the little pieces only leads to frustration.

                          Perseverance pays off. Every important puzzle went together bit by bit, piece by piece.

                          When one spot stops working, move to another. But be sure to come back later (see above).

                          The creator of the puzzle gave you the picture as a guidebook.

                          Variety is the spice of life. It's the different colors and patterns that make the puzzle interesting.

                          Establish the border first. Boundaries give a sense of security and order.

                          Don't be afraid to try different combinations. Some matches are surprising.

                          Take time to celebrate your successes (even little ones).

                          Anything worth doing takes time and effort. A great puzzle can't be rushed.

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                            NuHiepDeThuong 24.01.2005 01:55:13 (permalink)
                            40. The Precious Present


                            Timothy Ray Miller


                            This is the precious present, regardless of what yesterday was like, regardless of what tomorrow may bring.

                            When your inner eyes open, you can find immense beauty hidden within the inconsequential details of daily life.

                            When your inner ears open, you can hear the subtle, lovely music of the universe everywhere you go.

                            When the heart of your heart opens, you can take deep pleasure in the company of the people around you --family, friends, acquaintances, or strangers--including those whose characters are less than perfect, just as your character is less than perfect.

                            When you are open to the beauty, mystery, and grandeur of ordinary existence, you "get it" that it always has been beautiful, mysterious, and grand and always will be.

                            This is the precious present.
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                              THACHVU 20.02.2005 03:16:40 (permalink)
                              I think It's too long to read. I think we should give some hot topics to discuss?
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