SAY OR YOU FAIL TO KNOW FOREVER...
Steven Le 20.08.2008 10:42:41 (permalink)
SAY OR YOU FAIL TO KNOW FOREVER...
 
Translated by Steven Le (Le Duy Minh)

(The English-Vietnamese version can be read at my blog
http://360.yahoo.com/leduyminh20022002 by clicking on the "Love" tag.)
 
Whether girls should declare their love first or not?
 
Why do girls have to keep silent while love is bursting into flames inside their hearts? Why do rights to make known their feelings only belong to boys? Will you continue to keep the viewpoint “Just buffalos always seek for posts, not posts doing it for buffalos” – in Vietnamese proverbs: “buffalos” symbolize “boys” while “posts” symbolize “girls” and the whole saying means that boys always express their love towards girls first, not girls - after reading the writing of the young lady Ha Kin below?
 
What do you think when girls are active to “declare love”?
 
How many girls love some guy secretly? And how many of them are fighting with themselves to speak it out? What to do now? Buy a daisy home and then nip off each petal of the flower: “say”, “don’t say”, “say”, “don’t say”… then, if you end in the choice “don’t say”, maybe the girl has to find another daisy right away… keep nipping off the petals until the flower allows her to say it.
 
Why do girls have to be so tormented?
 
 
 
That is because the concept “Girls ought not to declare their love first” – a common concept dating back to the ancient time and still existing in the modern society. Especially, this concept is not only applied to the Oriental but also to the Western, Southern and Northern.
 
Although now the so-called occurrence “Posts seek for buffalos” becomes more and more common and normal, but this occurrence hasn’t, in fact, been able to be normal to an extent that people can’t help reminding of it and it is not common enough for all the girls to be courageous to apply that active right most naturally.
 
Whether there is a convincing explanation to the reason why girls should not declare love first or not? “Should not” means it is not good, but why not good?
 
Men are the male sex so they claim themselves as ones to have the active right; and they like to conquer. For women, the female sex, passive people obviously. That is a way of thinking towards customs, which is not necessary to give a logical explanation and of course, it has become the concept of a traditional society.
 
From here, it is inferred that girls declaring their own love are “not reserved”, “bold” and “shameless” and so how can they be called the “fair sex”? And of course not many men accept that type of women. To take a second look, how bad is it? Is it the failure to explain the logic or the inference? How many girls miss their love affairs and torture themselves because of those things? In addition, a society full of the “reserved women” must be the most boring one.
 
Some guys are too shy to…
 
A true love is always the emotional harmony of the two sexes; there will be no love without this. And then, love is fairness; a girl can also love as a boy and why can’t she express her feelings? Love is something that human beings own; why must a girl contain her own emotions just because she is a female?

Girls, bear this in your mind; you might fail or succeed when you declare your love to a guy; but if you don’t say, you fail to know forever.
 
People have rights to evaluate the way in which a girl makes known her feelings. How does she do it? So shamelessly? Nicely? Gently? Wildly? Hurriedly? ... There are many colors of making known one’s love, so we can’t give only one assessment that girls declaring their love first are “the same”.
 
If you are a girl with a genuine love towards some guy and with politeness and nicety, you are entitled to come and see him and tell him your love. Why not? That a girl has a crush on a guy is bad, isn’t it? If so, how bad is it?

However, you should also consider and make acquaintance of your love partner before uttering sweet nothings to avoid speaking imprudently! In the case, you are imprudent or meet someone self-satisfied, looking down on you; you should thank for your love declaration. Thank to this, you don’t need to spend more time dreaming of and regretting such a guy! If he does not love you, forget about it…!
 
Occasionally, girls’ love declaration is a necessity because if you don’t say, you might lose a nice love. There are some guys that are so timid that they dare not to declare their own love to any girls despite “loving her very much” and she loves him so much, too. At the moment, he needs a girl to come and give him an affectionate pat on the face to wake him up to help reduce the girl’s anger: “Hey, I love you so much!”
 


 
Many guys’ hearts are really stirred when a girl actively say endearments to them. Not all care about the so-called “buffalos” and “posts”. Sincerity can convert hearts.
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